How To Get an Ex Back When Blocked

If you have gone through some issues with your ex and they blocked you, but you want to work things out then there are some do's and don'ts in the situation. Your ex blocking you doesn't mean that the relationship is over forever, it can just mean that they need some space from you for now. That doesn't mean forever though.

If your ex has blocked you but you want to talk to them, the first thing that you need to understand and respect is that they blocked you because they do not want to communicate with you. That could have been done out of anger but may not mean that they never want to talk to you again. Blocking often happens during or after a fight or argument. Taking some space and giving the other person some time to cool down is always the best way to go. Do not try to contact them through other means. This includes social media accounts or using someone else's phone to try to talk to them. If you do this, especially right after the fight without a cool-down period, it could make things worse. Some people think that if they just talk to their ex they can convince them to get back together. That is very rarely true. 9 times out of 10 the ex already understands the situation but disagrees and no amount of "convincing" is going to work. People have different opinions and just because your ex doesn't agree with you doesn't mean they don't understand your point of view.

How to get your ex to unblock you

Here is the good part...blocking doesn't have to be permanent. You do have to give the situation some space and show your ex that you respect their decision to not communicate with you for a while. If you have tried other means to contact them and have received a negative response then you need to give the situation a little more space. Depending on how bad the fight was that caused the blocking to begin with will depend on how long it will take for them to unblock you. If you were together for a long period of time and had a falling out, it may not be a bad idea to give it a month and then have a mutual friend talk to your ex for you to see if they would be open to unblock you. You want to approach this topic gently and without pressure. Do not have your friend elude to getting back together in that conversation. Instead, have them focus on putting the idea out there of opening up the line of communication between two people and leaving it at that. Under no circumstances should you or your friend make the situation worse by directing anger at your ex. The last thing that you want to do is fight with them even more. A fight or negative interaction with an ex that has blocked you will result in them validating their feelings that blocking you was the right thing to do. That is the last thing that you want to happen. It is equivalent to being on trial for a crime that you didn't commit and something happened that makes you look like you are guilty. The bottom line, don't make anything worse no matter how hurt or angry you feel. If you can't control how you react to your feelings then get yourself into therapy.

If there is a ton of resistance on your ex's side where you feel that nothing is working, then another option is to have a love spell cast. Believe it or not, this is a method that works very well to change someone's opinions and feelings towards a person and/or situation. When nothing else has worked continue giving that person space and contact a spell caster to have a love spell cast. This can change the situation entirely in your favor and get your ex to not only open the line of communication between you two but also get them to remember the good times you had instead of focusing on the bad times. It is very easy for people to forget the good you brought into their lives when something bad happens. A love spell can change the way someone thinks about you. When you have dreams of someone it can be an indication that you miss them. A love spell can plant those seeds and get your ex to dream of you which can help make them miss you instead of staying angry.

Another thing that a love spell can do is change situations and circumstances. A good example of this is if your ex is dating someone else. Maybe they left you for another man or woman and that is the reason you are blocked. If this is the case then a love spell can change that whole situation around to your advantage where your ex sees the person they are currently dating as no good. Once that conclusion is made, it will cause them to pause and think about their relationship with you. This can easily make them miss you like crazy and appreciate you more which leads to reconciliation.

It is a fact that sometimes when two people break up, the person ultimately leaving the relationship isn't always honest about WHY they have made the decision that they have. This can result in the other person coming to a conclusion about what happened but not knowing the true reason. Often, there is build up in the relationship and there isn't just one reason why the breakup happened. There may have been an incident that occurred that was the icing on the cake, but wasn't the only reason that your ex decided to end the relationship. People don't generally leave a long-term relationship over something small. It could've been a lot of small things adding up or some major boundaries crossed that made them come to the conclusion that they can no longer have you in their life.